Erica and Sonny walked away from their elopement with a sense of clarity that only comes from living a day entirely on your own terms. Their reflections offer a heartfelt roadmap for any couple beginning their elopement journey.
Trust what feels right for you.
They learned early in the planning process that outside opinions can blur the vision. The moment they chose to stop weighing the expectations of others, their plans fell into place with surprising ease. Every decision felt lighter, clearer, and more meaningful once they focused on what resonated with them.
Embrace the unpredictable moments.
Their day included lost belongings, ripped pants, and a storm that arrived right when portraits began. Rather than letting those moments shift the energy of the day, they laughed, shrugged, and kept going. Those unexpected situations became the stories they now cherish most. Their advice is simple: allow room for spontaneity, because unpredictability often leads to the most genuine memories.
Surround yourself with people who support you.
Choosing vendors with heart made all the difference. Their photographer Emily and her assistant Jena guided them through the entire experience with care, humor, and unwavering encouragement. According to Erica and Sonny, investing in a team you trust does more than elevate your photos. It shapes how the entire day feels.
Place meaning in the details that matter.
Their ceremony décor was minimal, but the personal touches were everywhere. Jewelry passed down from grandmothers. A watch inspired by Sonny’s hometown. Cowboy boots that honored the city where they built their life together. Every item they carried told a piece of their story, proving that the smallest details often hold the most significance.
Keep your ceremony simple and let your emotions lead.
They finalized their ceremony the day before because that was what felt natural. They let their families talk and laugh. They played soft music in the background. They read vows in a circle of people who love them. Their ceremony was not about performance. It was about presence, and that shaped the tone for the entire day.
Give yourself moments to breathe.
Some of their favorite memories were the quiet ones. The drives between locations, the conversations in the car, the way the mountains felt as they moved from one moment to the next. Building space into your timeline allows you to feel the day rather than rush through it.
Always bring a backup outfit, especially if you expect weather.
Their words, offered with a smile and absolute sincerity.
