Sam Starns | Oregon Elopement Specialist

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SO MANY PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES ACCORDING TO OTHER PEOPLE'S EXPECTATIONS.

And that's B.S.

Especially on your wedding day.

You and your relationship is unique in every way, and it's ridiculous that the wedding industry puts us in boxes that we just aren't born to fit in. You were born to stand out.

Imagine having an adventure elopement day that includes whatever floats your boat, whether it’s adrenaline-packed, laughter-filled, romance to the nines, or a combo of all of the above. Then add in a kickass connection between you and your partner that’s enabled by dedicating that day TO YOU.

I’m Sam, a TEDx speaker, author and adventure elopement expert for Oregon, Alaska, and beyond. My work has been featured in Travel Oregon, National Geographic, Junebug Weddings, Wandering Weddings, TEDx, and more.

And I regret my wedding.

I spent part of my wedding day in tears, and not the happy kind. I had a day that wasn't really about the connection I had with my partner. It wasn't about who we were as people and about the things we loved. It wasn't "us". And it's unacceptable for you to experience the same thing.

I specialize in helping fun, & free-spirited couples create bold "Elope Your Life" wedding days. Days that are intentional, full of meaningful details, and do-it-for-the-plot adventure in dramatic places like:

Alaska (A couple eloped in an ice cave via helicopter before taking in the Iditarod this past March!) Oregon (You can elope on a desert playa, have an intimate wedding on the Oregon Coast before whale watching, or witness sunrise above a volcano caldera) California Redwoods (Emily and Jessey eloped on a redwood canopy walk before walking a lantern-filled path through old-growth redwoods) Scotland (want to elope on the Isle of Skye and then witness the Jacobite Steam Train like Adrianna & Cam did?) Norway (two brides just boarded a sailboat to elope in the Lofoten Islands the first couple days of Pride Month) and beyond.

Then my couples use that empowerment to transform the rest of their lives.

ELOPE

/əˈlōp/ - verb To have an intimate wedding that represents the interests and passions of you and your partner, however nontraditional they may be in terms of weddings.

ELOPE YOUR LIFE ®️

/əˈlōp yôr līf/ - verb To take the confidence and empowerment of eloping and use it to transform other areas of your life in order to live unapologetically and authentically. The 'Elope Your Life' philosophy is built around a simple idea: choosing to elope, to design your day around what actually matters to you instead of what's expected, takes a specific kind of confidence. My couples leave with that confidence. They use it. I've watched it change careers, relationships, and how people move through the world.

"ELOPE YOUR LIFE" ADVENTURE ELOPEMENT FAQ

We're interested in possibly adventuring with you. What are the next steps?

Check out samstarns.com for more inspiration and fill out the contact form at samstarns.com/contact — we'll then hop on a discovery call to see if we're a great fit for each other (a must for an experience that's so human-based, and not some robotic transaction). Couples walk away from discovery calls with more clarity, a sense of agency, and inspired, no matter who they end up working with.

Do I need to be super athletic to have an adventure elopement?

Absolutely not. While I carry heavy camera gear around and up mountains, there's no way I can run a marathon. In fact, while I enjoy hiking, I love capturing unique activities even more.

You don't need to hike 3000 ft up a mountain, you just need to be intentional. Most couples, if they're not going on a big hike, incorporate a fun activity that's special to them, or something they've always wanted to do! You can hike on your elopement day. You can also hop on a sailboat, go whale watching, helicopter to a glacier, chase the northern lights, ride horses, go on a safari, and so much more.

What's included in an adventure elopement collection/package?

A custom planning portal dedicated to you, permit and planning assistance, planning calls, day-of elopement timeline, heirloom album credit, my travel, and so much more. More details are available at samstarns.com/pricing-info.

How far in advance do people typically book?

While engaged couples can book an elopement photographer as last-minute as a week out or less, I highly recommend booking 6-12 months in advance so you have a chance to explore, discover, and book the vendors and experiences you want. National park permits require detailed ceremony plans, and permit applications are usually due at least 30 days out. Many desirable lodgings book up well in advance. The earlier you start your elopement planning, the more intentional you can be! I'm here to help you curate something next-level.

What makes your approach different from other adventure elopement photographers?

Many elopement photographers take on 30-50 (or more) elopements per year. That allows a photographer no time to get to know you as people. This isn't just a photography experience, it's a human one.

What's the craziest/wildest elopement you've ever photographed?

That's a hard one to answer — each elopement is unique, but my favorites usually involve a fun activity and something that's special to the couple. I've had couples camp in their rooftop tent on a vast desert playa and stargaze, I've had couples helicopter to a glacier and overnight geodesic dome stay in Alaska, I've also had elopement couples fly to Norway and sail on a 75-year-old sailboat on the Norwegian Sea.

What are some elopements/activities that you'd love to photograph?

My latest bucket list elopements involve African safaris or trips to explore countries like Namibia, hiking and witnessing active volcanoes at sunset/sunrise in Guatemala, checking out the iceberg alley in Greenland, and more. Looking for something exciting like this? Reach out and let's brainstorm!

WHAT NEXT Submit an inquiry via samstarns.com/contact. I typically respond within 24 hours (usually within just a few hours or less) with a link to schedule a call to dive in, brainstorm, look over pricing/collections, and answer questions!

WORDS THAT DESCRIBE AN ELOPE YOUR LIFE EXPERIENCE: Fun, adventurous, spontaneous, free, intimate, intentional, personal, meaningful.

ELOPEMENT COLLECTIONS INCLUDE - Custom client portal - The ultimate elopement guide (including all resources from my book “Elope Your Life”) - Extensive planning consultation/assistance - Planning Zoom calls - Your own custom day-of timeline - Custom vendor referrals

- Vetted location recommendations and stats on each - Getting to Know You Questionnaire and Zoom calls - Marriage license resources - Permitting information - All hi-res edited digital images - Heirloom album to display in your home - Photographer travel included

Starting pricing and more info about the Elope Your Life experience is available at samstarns.com/experience

FEATURED IN: TEDxRoseburg NBC King 5 Seattle CBS Good Day Sacramento ABC AM Northwest NBC WFLA Bloom Talk Show Kleinfeld Travel Oregon

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  • Sam Starns | Oregon Elopement Specialist
  • Sam Starns | Oregon Elopement Specialist

What Couples Are Saying

Read reviews from couples who’ve worked with this photographer and shared their elopement experience.

  • 5-stars

    Sam will give you the most exciting, adventurous, unique, grounded, and joyful wedding experience. The long version: Sam is one of the coolest chicks in the country, hands down. It becomes clear that she works hard, cares hard, and loves hard from the minute you begin working with her. Our first phone conversation with Sam felt like meeting our new best friend, but it was also exciting to find out what a strong listener, savvy adventurer, and thorough photographer she would be! No detail went unaddressed, no stone unturned as we decided what to do and where to go on our big day. We settled on a jam-packed schedule up and down the Oregon-California coastline with everything from first looks to beers to surprise sea lion sightings and the whole time, Sam had us cracking up and we had hours of amazing conversation. My husband and I are naturally a bit camera-awkward, but that’s no match for Sam’s expertise! Our album is full of the most meaningful, powerful, and artistic photos, and honestly the day was everything we could have asked for and more. We can not recommend Sam enough. Read her book. Book her for your engagement or elopement/small ceremony photos. You simply will not be sorry!

    Whitney Adams
  • 5-stars

    Sam is the absolute best! She is a stellar photographer, communicator, planner, and overall human. She gave us the best day ever at our Oregon coast/ redwoods elopement. Words really can’t describe how much of a dream the day was and the entire process of planning the day. From the moment we hired Sam I didn’t have to worry about a thing, and our day went flawlessly. We met Sam in 2018 and still keep in contact with her on a regular basis. I tell every friend and relative to elope, and specifically to elope Sam!

    Brooke Lewis
  • 5-stars

    We loved our Glacier National Park elopement with Sam! She took the time to really get to know us through phone and video chats before we met up. The first time we got together in person was for our adventure session a few days before the wedding. We scheduled the adventure session at the end of a 2-day hiking experience totaling almost 20 miles, so we were pretty exhausted at the time. Sam's vibrant personality immediately perked us up and put us at ease. Her prompts were hilarious and we ended up having a fantastic time laughing together while taking portraits. The fun was genuine and it absolutely shows in the photos! Sam had the knowledge and experience to take us to the right places at the right times to optimize our experience of Glacier's jaw-dropping settings. She was our unofficial guide about the park, sharing knowledge and tidbits along the way. She has such an eye for beauty and light, and was able to capture our special memories in the most beautiful way. Our small group of friends all had a great time with her and her husband, Brian. Our elopement day was full of fun, laughs, Goldfish crackers (Sam and both of us love them), adventure, and authenticity. We even got to go paddle-boarding in our wedding gear; how many people can say that? Afterward, Sam and Brian joined us at our place for dinner! It was great hanging out with two new friends after experiencing one of the best days.

    Shan Tang
  • 5-stars

    Our elopement in Alaska with Sam was so epic. Our friends kept saying that our elopement announcement photo should be used for Alaska’s tourism! The whole elopement experience was completely worth it. The mine, glacier, and reindeer farm were all perfect additions to the day where we climbed a mountain and said “I do”. It felt good to do what we wanted. It wasn’t like we were trying to exclude anyone, but an Alaska elopement was just what we felt more comfortable doing. Sam’s communication was on point (I love a quick response and she was on it) and she gave us so many location/activity recommendations that were so helpful, whether she’d been there already or not. And the whole Elope Your Life aspect? It was present in our day, with trying new things and getting outside our comfort zone. It was also a great reminder to continue that bravery and exploration in our lives. With Sam there to capture it, we forded a glacial stream, hiked a mountain, were surrounded by reindeer, kissed a moose, and explored an old mine in the mountains of Alaska. To anyone wanting to elope – do it. We now have so many friends and family who wish they did what we did.

    Andy & Ashland W.
  • 5-stars

    When anyone asks me how our Kauai elopement was, my words are 'it was perfect' and it truly felt perfect! We combined in that day what we truly love to do. And having Sam there was amazing; the fact that she was so accommodating, willing to do whatever (props for being a great rider), taking awesome photos and on top of that, marrying us in a very personal ceremony with that beautiful scenery. We truly couldn't ask for a better day, and now having these amazing photos, it makes me want to go back to Hawaii.

    Deidra & Juan P.
  • 5-stars

    Choosing a great photographer is the most important wedding decision to make, second only to choosing your spouse. We could not be happier in choosing Sam as our adventure elopement photographer. It was the best decision we made for our day. I went to do some research on Reddit when my (now) husband and I started to consider eloping. The very first post on the Eloping subreddit that day, someone mentioned her and linked to her Wandering Weddings page, where I then found her website. We were immediately sold, and this choice went on to shape the best day of our life. Sam really helped curate the day and make our vision come alive, just like we imagined. Even better, really. Our day was light, fun, romantic, and we felt so ALIVE. Sam’s direction was fantastic, and we loved her games like, “The Floor is Lava” (if you know, you know). It didn’t even feel like “direction”. We now recommend Sam before anyone can even ask. We’re always looking at our pictures all googly eyed, and it’s great to have tangible memories that we can share with our family and friends. There were so many intimate moments captured together, so many smiles, so many laughs. It was an incredible experience. It was an unimaginably perfect, PERFECT day. She knows what she’s doing, a true professional, but it was also so genuine. She wrote a book. She even did a TEDx Talk on eloping!! We were both like whaaaaat!!! Yes, woman, kill it! Seriously, hire Sam, great pics are sooo important, but it was more than pictures, it was an experience. It was worth every penny. I honestly cannot recommend her enough. Break from tradition and do something for YOU that you can share with each other.

    Nikki & Evan
  • 5-stars

    Due to COVID, we decided to forgo the traditional wedding and plan the adventure elopement of our dreams. But also due to COVID, we changed our elopement location 3 times! Not only were we impressed with Sam’s flexibility, but with each step, she had an incredible repository of recommended vendors and location suggestions that fit the bill for exactly what we wanted. How can we put into a short paragraph how amazing our 2-day elopement was across the island of Maui? We got married at 10,000ft at Haleakala National Park, explored a red sand beach with a DRONE, hiked a bamboo forest, and so much more. Sam doing what she does gave us a super solid foundation and empowerment to make our experience exactly what we wanted: spontaneous, candid, and fun. She made it so comfortable, so 2 days flew by! Her direction in front of the camera was also a great balance of serious and funny moments. We’re still laughing at, “Every guy has a condition. It’s called ‘dead hand’.” On top of all that, she knew things about the planning process (like when Google was lying about drive time 👀, or how we’d fit our day together perfectly) that made our life so much easier. Her timeline questionnaire and timeline she crafted from it just put our minds at ease. Sam cares SO deeply about every couple she meets. From the first conversation we had, the first thing she did was get to know us as people and what we wanted, past the epic images. Since we were all free, we met up the night before our elopement to just have dinner and talk (and share dog photos) and that really stood out to us about Sam’s process too. The whole elopement experience surpassed what we ever could have imagined.

    Katherin & Clay
Sam Starns | Oregon Elopement Specialist
Sam Starns | Oregon Elopement Specialist

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